http://www.thesexpositivephotoproject.com/2013/02/i-masturbate-exhibition-at-center-for.html?zx=9f2b69a2389868c


http://www.thesexpositivephotoproject.com/2013/02/i-masturbate-exhibition-at-center-for.html?zx=9f2b69a2389868c

San Francisco, CA, May, 2013 –The “I masturbate…” photo project, originally a hugely popular online exhibit, bringing in over 250,000 views during May 2011, is now coming to The Center for Sex and Culture in San Francisco in May of 2013. Never before has such a radically inclusive exhibition of photos of people masturbating been put together.

Reducing the stigma around masturbation is important because we are a culture of mixed messages – there is no unilateral message about masturbation, for some people there is a stigma about it, for others it is culturally accepted as a norm and even expected (as with heteronormative males, for example). Socially, we have multiple messages that change over time, and for the most part none of them really address the individual’s right to create a sexual practice and life that is right and true for them.

What infamous sex blogger, Violet Blue, has to say about the “I Masturbate” project: “It’s quite beautiful. It’s also a provocative combination of stillness, intensity, healing and total nastiness. And, there are a few local porn stars sprinkled throughout the days. Bravo.” tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2011/05/the-sex-positive-photo-project-masturbation-month-daily-photos.html

McCabe has created an Indie Go-Go campaign to raise funds to support the month long solo exhibition. The campaign includes a video of the photographer describing the project as well as examples of the photos that will be on display: indiegogo.com/p/313097

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Of Nude Photography, Body Size and Beauty


A good friend of mine complained several times that the photos on the Tumlbr blog I ran for over two years showed very few fine art or glamour nudes of “full figured” women.

To that charge I had to plead guilty, but, of implied charge that larger women are inherently unsexy I vehemently rejected.

As far as the reason photos on my blog were disproportionally of fit, thin, younger women the reason is simple.  Most photographers shoot that type of women exclusively.    This is not too complicated.  Our innate attraction is to young healthy sexual partners.  Young fit women speak subconsciously a language of fertility, the ability to bear many healthy babies. This is no different than the message that fit and physically powerful men will make better sires and protectors for children. Most photographers use models that are as near to the physical ideal as possible.  Pornographers do this to allow the viewer to imagine this idea girl (guy) wants to have sex with the less than ideal viewer.  Glamour and fashion photographers use this ideal to make their image or the clothing to look better than it really is. Even most fine art photographers use fit young models as an uncluttered canvas for their art.  As a photographer, I will admit, the young fit professional models I have shot make me look good as a photographer.

Larger and/or older models can be used very successfully for glamour, fashion and fine art photography; however, it takes more photographic skill to do so.  Most of my clients are over 40 and over size 10.  Most commercial photographers are in the business of making money, it makes good sense to shoot models that take the least effort to make an acceptable image. Unlike moving life, still photos magnify the slightest imperfections and make that imperfection the center of the image. Why do you think that the larger women were very popular models during the age realistic painting, but are no longer so?  Simple, the painter painted what he saw desirable in the woman.  Even very big women in paintings had no cellulite or stretch marks.  Within one generation of the advent of photography as the primary medium of pin-up, the size of models shrank considerably.  One need only compare the erotic photos of the 1890’s to those of the 1920’s.

Because of this, photos of less than fit male or female models are usually relegated to two categories, portraiture and fetish.  For the fetish photographer, the point is to accentuate the size of the model as this is what arouses the fetish viewer.  That leaves the photographing of the “normal” sized woman almost exclusively to the portraitist.  For me, there is more artistic satisfaction in shooting a 45 year old housewife in a way that brings her inner beauty and sexuality than in shooting a 20 year old professional model to evoke beauty and sexuality.  And, for the house wife, I know the images I make will be treasured for decades and that brings its own satisfaction.

The average size woman in the US has been noted to be anywhere from size 12 to size 16. That means for every woman who is an 8, 6, 4, 2, or 0 there is an equal number of women who are sized 17, 18, 20 or larger.  Do only the smallest 20% of women want to look attractive? Do only size 4 women want a sexy photo of themselves for their lover?  Of course not.  I can tell you that I have yet to have one of these “normal” sized women not love the photos I shoot of them. However, if you just stand the same woman against a wall naked and shoot a photo they will likely hate it.  What I am paid for is my skill at using poses, angles and lighting to emphasize what I want to emphasize and de-emphasize what I wish to de-emphasize.  Then, like the painters of old, I use post production methods (read Photoshop) to further conform the image of the sexual and desirable woman I know my client to be.

I once had a couple from France want glamorous and erotic photos of both her solo and of the two of them making love (I’ve done this a good deal). The challenge was while the husband was very pale and perhaps 5’ 6” and 110 lbs., the wife, who was of Haitian heritage, was very dark complicated and 5’10” and over 300 lbs.  The couple was clearly in love and it was my task to give them finished images that reflected their love and passion for one another.  I used my skills of designing poses and camera angles and my studio lighting to narrow the differences in their sizes and to bring the focus to their faces, both in the nude portraits and of their love making.   In post-production, I unapologetically smoothed over stretch marks and other skin issues; while I also adjusted his skin tone darker and hers to a rich coco brown.  The photos were still very much “them”, but I moved the focus from their visual differences to their united love and passion.  They loved the photos.

 But… does that mean they would sign off so I can use their photos in advertising? No. Even if they  were not a professional couple that simply could not share their images.  My clients may love their photos, and be in a position that they could let sell their photos, but most women are afraid of the cruel things other women might say, so it is the rare size 14 woman, no matter how attractive, that lets her image be published. 

So that is why you don’t see many large women in glamour photography or fine art blogs and websites.